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You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah

2023·Movie·PG-13·103 min·6.5(512)

7th grade drama just hits different.

Stacy and Lydia are BFFs who've always dreamed about having epic bat mitzvahs. But things start to go comically awry when a popular boy and middle school drama threatens their friendship and their rite of passage.

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About You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah

You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah is a 2023 English-language comedy and drama film directed by Sammi Cohen. The cast is led by Sunny Sandler, Samantha Lorraine, Dylan Hoffman. It has a runtime of 1h 43m. Viewers rate it 6.5/10 across 500 ratings. In United States, it is currently streaming on Netflix, Netflix Standard with Ads.

You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah was produced by Happy Madison Productions and Alloy Entertainment and made in United States of America. It was released on August 18, 2023, and carries a PG-13 certification.

Director
Sammi Cohen
Writers
Alison Peck
Release date
August 18, 2023
OTT release
August 25, 2023
Original language
English
Age rating
PG-13
Status
Released
Country
United States of America
Production
Happy Madison Productions, Alloy Entertainment
#based on novel or book#bar mitzvah#coming of age#teenage girl#middle school#jewish girl#jewish family#teen drama#sisterhood#teenager

You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah cast & crew

You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah was directed by Sammi Cohen and written by Alison Peck.

The cast features Sunny Sandler as Stacy Friedman, Samantha Lorraine as Lydia Rodriguez Katz, Dylan Hoffman as Andy Goldfarb, Dylan Chloe Dash as Tara, Millie Thorpe as Nikki, and Miya Cech as Kym Chang Cohen.

Behind the camera, the score was composed by Amanda Yamate, cinematography is by Ben Hardwicke, and it was produced by Barry Bernardi and Judit Maull.

Is You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah worth watching?

You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah holds an audience score of 6.5/10 from 512 ratings, a solidly received comedy films.

At 1h 43m, it's a standard feature-length watch.

If you enjoy comedy and drama, You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah is worth a place on your watchlist.

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It first became available to stream digitally on August 25, 2023.

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Cast of You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah

Sunny Sandler

Sunny Sandler

Stacy Friedman

Samantha Lorraine

Samantha Lorraine

Lydia Rodriguez Katz

Dylan Hoffman

Dylan Hoffman

Andy Goldfarb

Dylan Chloe Dash

Dylan Chloe Dash

Tara

Millie Thorpe

Millie Thorpe

Nikki

Miya Cech

Miya Cech

Kym Chang Cohen

Dean Scott Vazquez

Dean Scott Vazquez

Mateo

Idina Menzel

Idina Menzel

Bree Friedman

Adam Sandler

Adam Sandler

Danny Friedman

Jackie Sandler

Jackie Sandler

Gabi Rodriguez Katz

Luis Guzmán

Luis Guzmán

Eli Katz

Sarah Sherman

Sarah Sherman

Rabbi Rebecca

You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah — FAQs

Where can I watch You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah in United States?

You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah is streaming on Netflix, Netflix Standard with Ads in United States.

Is You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah on Netflix?

Yes — You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah is currently available on Netflix in United States.

What language is You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah in?

You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah is originally in English. Subtitle and dub options vary by streaming service.

How long is You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah?

You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah runs 1 hours 43 minutes (103 minutes).

What is You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah rated?

You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah is rated PG-13. It holds a 6.5/10 audience score from 512 ratings.

When did You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah release on OTT?

You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah became available digitally on August 25, 2023.

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